if the shoe fits..

I agree there's some heaviness in meaning about my post yesterday
Now ,I want to make it easy...well, not really...
 I am in search for a perfect shoe to wear for a perfect night
                                               ahead of time I told myself...Be still, My Heart!


walk on

“After a while, you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.  And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises.  You begin to accept your defeats.
With your head up and your eyes open. With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow is too uncertain for plans.  And futures have a way of falling down in midflight.  And after a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.  And you learn that you really can endure . . . that you really are strong.  That you really do have worth . . . and you learn . . . and you learn . . .”

image:dustjacketattic,excerpts: thesimply luxurious life

sweet space

"I have wings to fly"

 I like the saying on the wall. Sleeping and waking up with optimism.

happy note

the fragrance is memorable and fleeting...
One of the little luxuries I enjoy.
Have a wonderful weekend.


pretty liars

a half truth is a whole lie...


and only a coward does it.


pink love

some pink love for this long weekend...



I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief
-gerry spence


thursday thoughts

everything will be okay in the end..
if its not okay, its not the end.




I saw this picture and  I thought.. the most soothing feeling is to be held.
When you hold someone you can feel their divinity in your arms.
feel the love rise... it is more than words can share.

Always hold the hand of the one you love. 


wonderfully happy!

 I have the tub and the sunshine...I am wonderfully happy!


morning walk

An early-morning walk is a blessing for the whole day."  Henry David Thoreau

love of mom

 when I am too overwhelmed in life ...I always went back to the thoughts when I was a child with 
my Mom beside me. I feel safe just knowing she is just there. I feel so contented just listening
to her while she does her chores.I love the sound of our pan while she cooks.

One of the vivid memories I have for her as well is the day that I ask her
 " what we say when we pray?"
she gave me the most comforting words 
 pray to always lead me to a place
 where I'l be safe.
Ever since, I prayed this daily. 

A Mother's love is the most comfortable of all.


to really love a woman

to really love a woman
to understand her
You gotta know her deep inside 
Hear every thought, see every dream 
And give her wings, when she wants to fly  
then when you find yourself lyin 'helpless in her arms 
You know you really love a woman 

When you love a woman 
You tell her that she's really wanted 
when you love a woman
You tell her that she's the one
she needs somebody to tell her  
That it's gonna last forever 
So tell me have you ever really 
Really, really ever loved a woman? 

To really love a woman, let her hold you 
'Til you know how she needs to be touched 
You've gotta breathe her, really taste her  
'Til you can feel her in your blood 
An 'when you can see your unborn children in her eyes 
You know you really love a woman 

Oh, you gotta give her some faith, hold her tight 
A little tenderness, gotta treat her right 
She will be there for you, takin 'good care of you 
You really gotta love your woman 


I am blown away with this song of love.
 A man who could understand and love her woman with so much passion like this song.
Bryan Adams must have really love a  woman to write such passionate lyrics.


warm night

when the sun goes down the heels went up...
enjoying the warmth of friendships and longer nights.


an answered prayer

Its a NO.
Someday I will learn the wisdom behind it.

dance in the sun

Let us dance in the sun, wearing wild flowers in our hair. ~ Susan Shutz

looks like its going to be an amazing week with Sun on our side...
warmth  is beautiful.


into the weekend

...enjoy it..however it pleases you..

wild side

don't be ashamed to admit you have your wild side...
woman are more bold if one is sure of being loved.


true gift

if you give what can be taken, you are not really giving


in relationships highs, when love is great its all about giving..
but on its low, one of the giver takes back everything
 the true essence of giving is withhold.
there isn't any real love put into that giving in the first place
its just a facade of beautifully wrapped paper 
which will be long forgotten after the gift is open

 giving away your heart  is giving away part your life..
that is the deeper value of it
that  is the greatest gift you can give.